Your tone and it's impact in relationships PT 2


Tone of voice can have an immense impact on how we communicate, and in turn, the relationships we have with others. It can be the difference between coming off as harsh or understanding, and can make all the difference in how the other person receives and interprets the message. It is thus important to be mindful of our tone of voice when communicating with others, as it can make all the difference in how we are perceived and understood.



 Dr. Gottman's book reveals that the tone of voice we use when communicating actually conveys 38% of the meaning, while the actual words we use only account for 7% of the meaning.

For example, if someone expresses something to you in a calm, understanding tone, you are more likely to be receptive and understanding, as opposed to if they expressed it to you in a harsh, accusatory tone.

 This is because when someone speaks to you in a calm, understanding way, it can help to create a feeling of safety and trust, which can help foster a more productive conversation. On the other hand, when someone speaks to you in a harsh, accusatory way, it can create feelings of resentment and hostility. This can lead to a less productive conversation.

It can be argued that speaking to someone in a calm, understanding way is not always the most effective way to communicate. In some cases, speaking in a more forceful or direct manner may be necessary to get a point across. In some cases, passive or indirect communication can be misinterpreted, and the person will not understand the full message. Speaking in a direct and firm manner can help to ensure that the message is clear and understood.  

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